April 9, 2003

• the night we had the shoulder, i'd made grvay and potatoes too. so i ended up cutting the meat into bite-size slices, mixing it with brown gravy, then served on top the pasta. fresh broccoli on the side. much better like that.

  
  

  set up a stool in the backroom at the backdoor window so the evil one could look at birds.

  
  

  also managed to grab a hold of that rattail cactus yesterday while shifting plants. EEEEOUCH! had to come back in and tweeze some spikes.

  
  

  i was relayed something that someone else logged and i thought about when i first moved to new orleans. i couldn't believe how many bikers lived here in new orleans, and was really amazed that they kept all the chrome and silver all polished on thier hats and jackets and vests. i even made a comment to a friend and pointed at a bunch of tough-looking, large men. my friend with me glanced over to them and just kept talking. i had guessed she was used to bikers, living here all her life. well, come to find out they weren't all bikers. most did not ride bikes. my husband laughed when i shared this story with him.

  
  

  i was so oblivious to so many things when i moved here. i also grew up knowing everyone was different and that it isn't nice to point out certain things that obviously don't affect me since we are all individuals and we all have our quirks, likes, traditions, backgrounds, attitudes. besides i'd been ragged on and made fun of enough in school, why should i have need to bully someone else or be catty about something i know nothing about.

  
  

  (florida) my senior year in highschool, a friend was sad (i had a crush on him). i asked him what up? he said his s.o. was not happy with him. i said, 'well, what is she upset about?' he tells me, 'it's not a she.' and i'm like "oh, i didn't know, well, he, then?" anyways, whatever it was they worked it out. prom comes barreling around and he askes if i want to double with him and date. i agreed, i didn't have a date to prom. the tickets were sold in pairs. his boyfriend didn't go to our school. sarah was going to be the fourth person, she went to our school but was a year younger and not elegible to purchase tickets. so we were going to pretend james (my friend) was taking sarah and i was taking james' friend. well, they all backed out on me, somebody got really sick, i forget what the deal was. so i ended up hitching a ride to prom with my best friend and her man at the time.

  
  

  (new orleans) one time, i liked this guy(robbie), he was a bouncer at the bourbon pub. finally managed to get a date with him, a friendly date, just something to get out of the house for. (i had been in new orleans for about a month by this time). so he picks me up, gives me a flower. realise he was a friend of a friend, so we all chatted andstufflike that on a daily basis. so anyways, he tells me, "before we go out tonight, i need to tell you something"

  
  

  so i'm like "ok, what?"

  
  

  he says, "i'm bisexual, i like you, but i have a boyfriend, and he is going out with us tonight, is that ok?"

  
  

  i smile and say, "oh, i didn't know. it's cool. are y'all a happy couple? (big grin)"

  
  

  he tells me they have thier ups and downs, he's in the car...

  
  

  we go munch out on french quarter pizzas, then go back to his apartment to listen to music. robbie pulls me to side and says "i have something else to tell you, ask you, ok?"      ...ok

  
  

  "i like you both a lot and was wondering if we could have a threesome...if you'd be interested..."

  
  

  i declined the offer. i was 18. robbies boyfriend was a this greasey-headed nasty looking thing.....

  
  

  so then a few years later i am dating someone, and we room with this girl (a female dancer). well, it ends up she is bisexual, too. she grabbed me one night when we had like 30 people over and shoves her tongue in my mouth to kiss me (she was a little drunk). everyone was like jaw-dropped. i got a good chuckle at it until she kicked me and my bf out cause she couldn't have either of us. ran into her a couple years later, she was married, prego and lives in mississippi.

  
  

  i do love to be friends with people, but i don't want to DO everything with my friends.

  
  

  thanks to wicked kitty, (yes, i did your test, only got a 40%), for linking to the quiz site! i now have a link to take the how well do you know me test.

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